Girls are generally not in a good mood when they come to visit their aunt. This is understandable. After all, everyone will have a bad temper when they have an uncomfortable stomach or a weak state. So at this time, boys need to be more understanding and find ways to coax girls. When a girl comes, how can her aunt coax her?
1. Emotional soothing and understanding
A girl is already very emotional, and she will become even more emotional during her aunty period. At this time, if a boy only talks about drinking more hot water , drink brown sugar water, pay more attention to rest... these well-known nonsense, the girl will definitely be more irritable, and instead take her anger out on you. Isn't that counterproductive? Therefore, before a boy coaxes a girl with an aunt, he needs to calm her down first and then talk about other things.
Then how should you emotionally comfort a girl who comes to visit your aunt? Real care is to understand a girl's needs and then give her the warmth she needs. The best way to appease girls is to understand them. First understand the source of a girl's emotions, and then express understanding to her, making her feel that "someone understands me", and her emotions will calm down. For example:
"It’s really hard for girls. They have to suffer once a month. Think about how my stomach feels terribly uncomfortable when I occasionally eat the wrong thing. I can imagine how you feel in pain now." , I wish I could help you share a little more. I will cherish you more in the future, okay!”
Only if a girl feels that you understand her and you can empathize with her pain, she will I feel like you really understand her.
2. Action to comfort
After you have calmed the girl’s emotions through the above actions, you can then take what we mentioned before: drink more hot water and brown sugar water. Pay more attention to rest... Because when a girl comes to visit her aunt, these practices can indeed relieve her pain symptoms to a certain extent. I didn’t recommend you do this before because when a girl is in mood, she won’t listen to anything you say. After the girl calms down, everything is easy to talk about.
So, after you have calmed down emotionally, you can start to comfort through actions. Girls will see sincerity from boys’ actions. And if you only talk and don't do anything, girls will think that you are unreliable and only talk.
At this time, if you can rush to the girl's side to accompany her and take care of her, make some porridge and brown sugar water for her, Helping her with housework (girls can't touch cold water) is of course the best. If you can't rush there, you can also order takeout for her, or give her some "small rewards", such as saying to a girl: "Seeing that you have suffered so much, when you get better, I will reward you with a delicious meal." "You can also remind the girl to drink more water, take more rest, and chat with her to kill the boring time. These are all okay.
MostFinally, most girls are not unreasonable people. As long as you use the right method, it won't be a problem for a girl to coax her.
